Japanese grammar

What does ~たら~たで mean? Japanese grammar N1

~たら~たで means if… then in its own way (has its own drawbacks).

Quick facts
Level (estimated, JLPT framework)N1
StructureVたら + 同Vた + で
Romajitara tade
Meaningif… then in its own way (has its own drawbacks)

Forming it

Verb (go)行ったら + 行った + で
Verb (buy)買ったら + 買った + で

How to use it

Repeats the same verb to say: whether A happens or not, either way there's its own problem.

  • 「AたらAたで」 repeats the SAME verb: "if A, then there's also A's own hassle". Usually paired with a contrasting clause to say it's hard either way.
  • The following clause states the problem that arises — implying there's no perfect choice.
  • Colloquial; often used when lamenting.

Examples

  • It’s hard when they’re small, and once they grow up, the worries only multiply.

  • Having no money is hard, but when you have it, you just spend it.

Keep in mind

  • The two verbs must be THE SAME.
  • The following clause states the problem that arises.

Common mistakes

  • Wrong行(い)ったら来(き)たで大変(たいへん)だ。

    Going has its own hassle too.

    Correct行(い)ったら行(い)ったで大変(たいへん)だ。

    The two verbs must be the SAME — this is a repetition structure.

  • Wrong行(い)ったら行(い)ったで楽(たの)しい。

    Going has its own tiredness too.

    Correct行(い)ったら行(い)ったで疲(つか)れる。

    The following clause states a PROBLEM that arises (implying difficulty either way), not something entirely good.

Exam tips

  • 「AたらAたで」 = having A comes with A's own hassle; the two verbs must be the same.

Related patterns

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