Japanese grammar

What does お/ご~になる mean? Japanese grammar N4

お/ご~になる means (someone superior) does ~ (formulaic honorific).

Quick facts
Level (estimated, JLPT framework)N4
Structureお + Vます (drop ます) + になる
ご + N (Sino-Japanese root) + になる
Romajio / go ~ ni naru
Meaning(someone superior) does ~ (formulaic honorific)

Forming it

ExceptionVerbs whose masu stem is only 1 syllable (見る→見, 寝る→寝) do NOT use this pattern
Native Japanese verb (yamato)お + masu stem + になる (書く → お書きになる)
Sino-Japanese verb (suru-verb)ご + N + になる (利用する → ご利用になる)

How to use it

Forming respectful language for verbs that don't have a special respectful form.

  • This is the "safest" way to form respectful language: just take the masu stem of the verb and sandwich it between お and になる.
  • Choosing お or ご: native Japanese verbs (kun reading) use お (お使いになる), Sino-Japanese nouns + する (on reading) use ご (ご説明になる). There are a few conventional exceptions like お電話 (even though 電話 is a Sino-Japanese word).
  • This pattern is more formal than れる/られる, so it often appears in public announcements, restaurants, hotels, and when speaking to customers.
  • Verbs that already have a special respectful form should NOT be forced into this pattern: 食べる already has 召し上がる, so you don't say お食べになる.

Examples

  • Has the department manager already read this book?

  • The customer is waiting.

  • Please use the elevator.

Keep in mind

  • For verbs whose masu stem is only 1 syllable (見る → 見ます → 見), the formula sounds too short, so Japanese speakers use the special form ご覧になる instead of "お見になる".
  • Don't confuse this with お~する (N4-071) — that one is HUMBLE, used for actions you yourself perform. They differ by only one word, になる vs する, but have completely opposite meanings.

Common mistakes

  • Wrong私(わたし)が資料(しりょう)をお書(か)きになります。

    I will write the document.

    Correct私(わたし)が資料(しりょう)をお書(か)きします。

    An action performed by yourself must use the humble お~する, not the respectful お~になる.

  • Wrong先生(せんせい)はもうお帰(かえ)りになられました。

    The teacher has already gone home.

    Correct先生(せんせい)はもうお帰(かえ)りになりました。

    お~になる is already respectful; adding られる on top creates double honorifics (二重敬語) — incorrect.

Exam tips

  • Classic trap: given お読み___ and asked to choose になります or します — look at the subject to decide.

Related patterns

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