Japanese grammar

What does ~かねる mean? Japanese grammar N2

~かねる means find it hard/unable to do (even if willing) — due to one's position, courtesy, or delicacy.

Quick facts
Level (estimated, JLPT framework)N2
StructureVます (drop ます) + かねる
Romajikaneru
Meaningfind it hard/unable to do (even if willing) — due to one's position, courtesy, or delicacy

Forming it

Verb応じる → 応じ + かねる

How to use it

Expresses that the speaker finds something difficult or is unable to do it due to their position or a delicate situation; formal register, common in service settings.

  • 「~かねる」 attaches to the masu-stem and expresses that the speaker finds something DIFFICULT or is unable to do it — not physically impossible, but due to their position, politeness, or a delicate situation.
  • It is a polite, softened way to REFUSE: 「~かねます」 in place of the blunt 「できません」.
  • Don't confuse it with 「~かねない」 (a different meaning) = something bad could happen.

Examples

  • I’m afraid we are unable to meet that request.

  • With only the current information, I cannot make a judgment.

Keep in mind

  • Only attaches to volitional (active) verbs, the masu-stem.
  • Very common in Japanese used in service/business contexts.

Common mistakes

  • Wrong重(おも)すぎて、持(も)ちかねる。

    It's too heavy, so I can't carry it.

    Correct重(おも)すぎて、持(も)てない。

    「かねる」 is used for difficulty due to POSITION/delicacy, not for physical impossibility.

  • Wrongこのままでは、事故(じこ)が起(お)こりかねる。

    At this rate, an accident could happen.

    Correctこのままでは、事故(じこ)が起(お)こりかねない。

    "Something bad could happen" is 「かねない」; 「かねる」 means "hard to do".

Exam tips

  • 「かねる」 = hard to do (position/politeness); 「かねない」 = something bad could happen.

Related patterns

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